The second problem you describe where you cannot connect to other databases using Toad may have to do with the release compatibility of Toad and Oracle Net. I believe Toad requires an installation of the Oracle Client software, so the version of the client you now have may not be compatible. You should visit the Quest Software support site for further information on what the specific requirements are for Toad.
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